Saturday, June 9, 2007

Some stray thought

Aah ...my first blog....have no idea what to write about....
I wish i had something really interesting or funny to write about or a serious issue to be discussed. Alas! I just cant think of anything at the moment....Maybe creating a blog was a mistake !?! :)
Anyways ...i could tell u guys why I decided upon 'Everything is relative' as my blog name....its because lately i came across a lot of issues (since am preparing for some exam which needs us to think....finally!!!) which are debatable...can be argued upon....for hours after hours....and after thinking about it from all aspects...weighing its pros and cons....i often find myself wondering...well isnt it very relative?....i mean how can i decide what someone would, rather should do or not do...i can barely decide about my own worries most of the times....i mean it takes hell of a persons thinking prowess,analytical skills and other decision making skills to narrow down to one solution to his problem...then why the hell would anyone want to take up the responsibility to solve others...and that too uninvited...i mean using the phrase imagine urself in his shoes and think abt the situation is crap ! unless u experience the same feelings,undergo the same trauma,feel the same joy or fear...how can u imagine all these feelings and decide....well i dont think i can....maybe my imagination is pathetic...but i feel debates are useless....for instance...shouldnt ppl who cant hav a child of their own ,adopt? my personal opinion was yes..certainly they should...but apparently there are many ppl who believe otherwise....they say u cant love a child the way u wuld love urs...AGAIN....isnt this relative? why are they saying that abt everyone...why are they generalising it...I know many people who want to adopt and not because they cant have a kid of their own....but because they really want to make a difference in an orphan kids life...and to all those anti adoption ppl....one question...if a couple cant hav a kid of their own...and then if they decide to adopt...isnt the underlying reason to have someone to love...and if they dont hav their own kid ...this adopted kid bcoms their kid right? so wont they obvi love it exactly as they would have loved their own? OK now am straying away from the topic...but i hope u guys got my point... lemme knw if u think otherwise